Referral Boot Camp Referral Tip #8
Thursday, November 20th, 2008Go From a “Me” Process to a “We” Process
For many years the referral process has been taught as a “me” process. You may have been taught strategies such as:
1. “I’m trying to build my business and I need your help.”
2. “Let me tell you how I get paid.”
While there’s nothing inherently wrong with these strategies, there is a better way.
You’ll have more success asking for referrals, and probably feel more comfortable in the process, when you make it a “we” process. Rather than being self-centered in your referral approach, become client-centered. It might sound like:
1. “Let’s see who else we can help.”
2. “I’m certain there are people you care about, who might also value this type of work.”
3. “There are many people who are getting no advice, bad advice, or incomplete advice. And because of that, they are missing opportunities as well as setting themselves and their families up for problems down the road. And it doesn’t need to happen. Let’s explore who you care about, who you want to, at least, know about the important work I do.”
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